Earlier I got to thinking about relationships, and all of the factors that contribute to the formation of a romantic relationship between two people. There must be a certain level of consistency in order for two people to create a relationship. Amongst other things the duo must find one another compatible both by sharing common interests and a mutual attraction. But as if those few factors aren’t enough, they must both be looking for the same thing in a relationship. This is the tricky part, while one might be ready for a relationship the other might not be. While one is in one place in their lives, the other could be in another. There are many ingredients that contribute to a relationship recipe. And many of us can’t control whether or not we have all of the ingredients required, no matter how badly you wish to cook.
At the end of the day, we all need to appreciate each day at a time. Don’t worry about finding “the one,” focus on finding yourself first. Because I can tell you now, you will never be able to truly appreciate Mr. Right if you don’t appreciate yourself first. And you will never be able to recognize “the one” without first finding the one within yourself. Without knowing who you are, you will never be able to discern your hearts desires. When you stop searching for something you give it the opportunity to find you, and when they do, you’re going to want to have all of the ingredients.